RELEASING EMOTIONAL TENSION
I. GOD WANTS US OK INSIDE
1. The Preferred Disposition
John 14:1
“Let not your heart be troubled; you believe in God, believe also in Me.
Philippians 4:4
Rejoice in the Lord Always and Again I say Rejoice
Philippians 4:6-7
Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication, with
thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God; 7 and the peace of God,
which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and minds through
Christ Jesus
Psalm 46:10
Be Still and Know that I am God
James 1:2
My brethren, count it all joy when you fall into various trials
1 Thessalonians 5:16-18
Rejoice always, 17 pray without ceasing, 18 in everything give thanks; for this is the
will of God in Christ Jesus for you.
Matthew 6:25
“Therefore, I say to you, do not worry about your life, what you will eat or what
you will drink; nor about your body, what you will put on
Matthew 14:27
But immediately Jesus spoke to them, saying, “Be of good cheer! It is I; do not be
afraid
John 16:24
Until now you have asked nothing in My name. Ask, and you will receive, that
your joy may be full
Isaiah 61:1-3
“The Spirit of the Lord GOD is upon Me, Because the LORD has anointed Me To
preach good tidings to the poor; He has sent Me to heal the brokenhearted, To
proclaim liberty to the captives, And the opening of the prison to those who are
bound; 2 To proclaim the acceptable year of the LORD, And the day of vengeance
of our God; To comfort all who mourn, 3 To console those who mourn in Zion, To
give them beauty for ashes, The oil of joy for mourning, The garment of praise
for the spirit of heaviness; That they may be called trees of righteousness, The
planting of the LORD, that He may be glorified.
2. The only time negative emotions are permitted seems to be expressing
remorse to God and then we are to embrace the joy that comes with Mercy
and Forgiveness
a. Joel
Joel 2:12-13
“Now, therefore,” says the LORD, “Turn to Me with all your heart, With
fasting, with weeping, and with mourning.” 13 So rend your heart, and not
your garments; Return to the LORD your God
b. James
James 4:8-10
Draw near to God and He will draw near to you. Cleanse your hands, you
sinners; and purify your hearts, you double-minded. 9 Lament and mourn and
weep! Let your laughter be turned to mourning and your joy to gloom.
10 Humble yourselves in the sight of the Lord, and He will lift you up.
II. PROLONGED EXPPRESSION OF NEGATIVE EMOTIONS IS DAMAGING
1. A Broken Spirit Dries the Bones
Proverbs 17:22
A merry heart does good, like medicine, But a broken spirit dries the bones
2. Negative Emotions Promote Weakness
Nehemiah 8:10
Then he said to them, “Go your way, eat the fat, drink the sweet, and send
portions to those for whom nothing is prepared; for this day is holy to our Lord.
Do not sorrow, for the joy of the LORD is your strength
3. It is Unhealthy
Ninety percent of doctor visits are stress related, according to the Centers for
Disease Control and Prevention.
III. HOW
1. Literally release them to God
1 Peter 5:6-7
Therefore, humble yourselves under the mighty hand of God, that He may exalt
you in due time, 7 casting all your care upon Him, for He cares for you.
Psalm 55:22
Cast your burden on the LORD, And He shall sustain you; He shall never permit the
righteous to be moved.
Matthew 11:28-30
Come to Me, all you who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest.
29 Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart,
and you will find rest for your souls. 30 For My yoke is easy and My burden is light.
2. Tap into the Spirit’s Emotions
Galatians 5:22-23
But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, kindness, goodness,
faithfulness, 23 gentleness, self-control
3. Change the thoughts causing the negative emotions
Romans 12:1-2
I beseech you therefore, brethren, by the mercies of God, that you present your
bodies a living sacrifice, holy, acceptable to God, which is your reasonable
service. 2 And do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the
renewing of your mind, that you may prove what is that good and acceptable
and perfect will of God
4. Practice Expressing gratitude
Colossians 3:15
And let the peace of God rule in your hearts, to which also you were called in
one body; and be thankful.
5. Stay in your pay grade
Psalm 46:10
Be still and know that I am God; I will be exalted among the nations, I will be
exalted in the earth!
6. Think Big Picture
Psalm 27:1-3
The LORD is my light and my salvation; Whom shall I fear? The LORD is the strength
of my life; Of whom shall I be afraid? 2 When the wicked came against me To eat
up my flesh, My enemies and foes, They stumbled and fell. 3 Though an army
may encamp against me, My heart shall not fear; Though war may rise against
me, In this I will be confident.
7. Pray in the Spirit
Romans 8:26-28
Likewise, the Spirit also helps in our weaknesses. For we do not know what we
should pray for as we ought, but the Spirit Himself makes intercession for us with
groanings which cannot be uttered. 27 Now He who searches the hearts knows
what the mind of the Spirit is, because He makes intercession for the saints
according to the will of God. 28 And we know that all things work together for
good to those who love God, to those who are the called according to His
purpose.