Sunday, February 26, 2017

Relationships are very powerful tools used to help shape both our individual and corporate destinies. All of us are where we are in life based on the relationships we establish throughout the various stages of life. God, Himself is the author of relationships (Gen. 2:18 “it is not good for man to be alone…”), and He desires for us to have a healthy relationship with Him and with each other. In fact, the greatest and 2nd greatest commandments have to do with relationships (Matt. 22:36-40). This was the purpose in the Lord’s coming to Earth as Jesus Christ-relational restoration.  God could have resolved our sins and restored us with a simple word decree, but rather he chose to come in the form of a baby, have a relationship with his parents and siblings, and even chose 12 disciples to be in relationship with while He went about fulfilling His earthly ministry. The Lord loves to be in relationship with us! Jesus endured all of what He went through for us to have the opportunity to be in covenant relationship with God the Father.

Key truths about relationships
ü Not all relationships are healthy/sanctioned by god.  (2 Corinthians 6:14)
ü Relationships testify to others about who we are.   (John 13:35)
ü Relationships will often position us for favor.  (Genesis 39:21)   
ü Relationships will either empower us, enable us, or entangle us.  (Proverbs 13:20)

Establishing healthy relationships
Healthy relationships are those relationships that provide: 
A.) Accountability
B.) Support
C.) Strength
D.)Connectivity/Fellowship
E.) Encouragement 

How do we maintain healthy relationships?
I. Choose being __Happy___________ over being right.

Proverbs 3:13 “Happy is the man that findeth wisdom, and the man that getteth understanding.” 

II. Attack the ___problem___________ - not the person.

Ephesians 6:12 (KJV) “For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places.”


III. Avoid Making ___unhealthy____________ comparisons.

1 Samuel 18:6-8 (AMP) As they were coming [home], when David returned from killing the Philistine, the women came out of all the cities of Israel, singing and dancing, to meet King Saul with tambourines, [songs of] joy, and [a]musical instruments. The women sang as they played and danced, saying,
“Saul has slain his thousands, And David his ten thousand.”
Then Saul became very angry, for this saying [b]displeased him; and he said, “They have ascribed to David ten thousand, but to me, they have ascribed [only] thousands. Now, what more can he have but the kingdom?” Saul looked at David with suspicion [and jealously] from that day forward.

IV. Be ___truthful_____________ without being harmful.

Ephesians 4:15 (KJV) “But speaking the truth in love, may grow up into him in all things, which is the head, even Christ.”
Matthew 10:16b (KJV) “Be ye, therefore, wise as serpents, and harmless as doves.”


V. Be __yielding_______________ to each other to maximize effectiveness and Productivity.

Ephesians 5:20-23 (KJV) 20 Giving thanks always for all things unto God and the Father in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ; 21 Submitting yourselves one to another in the fear of God. 22 Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord.
23 For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the savior of the body.


Book Resource: The Relationship Skills Workbook: A Do-It-Yourself Guide to a Thriving Relationship – Dr. Julia B. Colwell

Sunday, February 19, 2017

InShape (part 3)

I.        THE PROBLEM
1.      America we have a problem.

a)     For the first time in history, as many people are suffering from the result of too much food as malnutrition.

b)     Seven in ten Americans are overweight.

c)      Diabetes, heart disease, and other “lifestyle-based diseases” now kill more people than infectious diseases worldwide.

d)     One in two Americans suffer from some chronic disease

e)     Most of our diseases are reversible through lifestyle:
         Heart disease; diabetes; cancer; dementia; autoimmune diseases; allergies; acid reflux; irritable bowels; neurological problems; depression; attention deficit hyperactivity disorder; thyroid, hormonal, and menstrual problems; skin problems eczema, psoriasis, acne, and more.

f)        We spend almost $3 trillion a year in our health care system, and almost 80 percent of that is for chronic lifestyle preventable and reversible disease.

g)     The average American eats 29 pounds of French fries, 23 pounds of pizza, 24 pounds of ice cream, 53 gallons of soda, 24 pounds of artificial sweeteners, 2.7 pounds of salt, 90,000 milligrams of caffeine each year
              
      2. Our Body Affects Everything
a)     What you do with your body sets the tone for everything else. Physical health influences your mental health, your spiritual health, your emotional health, your relational health, and even your financial health.  

3. Body Health is not all about law
     1 Cor 6:12-20
           All things are lawful for me, but all things are not helpful. All things are lawful for me, but I will not be brought under the power of any. 13 Foods for the stomach and the stomach for foods, but God will destroy both it and them. Now the body is not for sexual immorality but for the Lord, and the Lord for the body. 14 And God both raised up the Lord and will also raise us up by His power. 15 Do you not know that your bodies are members of Christ? Shall I then take the members of Christ and make them members of a harlot? Certainly not! 16 Or do you not know that he who is joined to a harlot is one body with her? For “the two,” He says, “shall become one flesh.” 17 But he who is joined to the Lord is one spirit with Him. 18 Flee sexual immorality.  Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. 19 Or do you not know that your body is the temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God, and you are not your own? 20 For you were bought at a price; therefore glorify God in your body and in your spirit, which are God’s.



II. FIVE THINGS WE NEED FOR OUR BODIES
           - From Rick Warrens Book: The Daniel Plan
1. Faith. 
     a. Commit all to the Lord
           Psalm 37:5
           Commit your way to the Lord, Trust also in Him, And He shall bring it to pass.

b. Ask God to take charge
         Prov. 16:3
           Commit your works to the Lord, And your thoughts will be established.

c. Rely on God’s Power to Help you.
         Phil 4:13
          I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.

d. Strength in the spirit
     Isaiah 40:28-30
     Have you not known? Have you not heard? The everlasting God, the Lord, The           Creator of the ends of the earth, Neither faints nor is weary. His understanding is unsearchable. 29 He gives power to the weak, And to those who have no might He increases strength. 30 Even the youths shall faint and be weary, And the young men shall utterly fall, 31 But those who wait on the Lord Shall renew their strength; They shall mount up with wings like eagles, They shall run and not be weary, They shall walk and not faint.

2. Food
     What we eat greatly affects our health. We truly are what we eat.
    
     To experience Optimal Health do these things.
     a. Eat Whole Foods. -  Eat foods grown on a plant not made in a plant
     b. Stay away from everything white
     c. Focus on unrefined, unprocessed, low-glycemic carbs (vegetables, fruits, whole grains Nuts and beans.
     d. Use your hand as a portion guide
     e. Use sugar only as an occasional treat. Stick with traditional natural forms: raw sugar,  raw honey, natural fruit sugars, or pure maple syrup.
    
         The Varieties of Sugar Familiar Sugars (not healthy) Agave, Honey Barley malt                      Juice concentrate,  Brown rice syrup,  Maple syrup,  Brown sugar, Molasses, Coconut sugar, Palm sugar, Evaporated or Sugar dehydrated cane juice,     
         Hidden Sugars or Toxic Sugars: Dextrose, Glucose, Dextrin, Lactose, Disaccharides                  Maltodextrin, Fructose, Maltose, High fructose corn syrup, Monosaccharides, syrup (or any corn Sorghum sugar or syrup), Sucrose, Hydrogenated starch, Xylose
         NOTE: SUGAR IS ONE OF THE MAIN CAUSES OF DISEASE
           - Today in America 1 in 2 have pre-diabetes or type 2 diabetes
           - Sugar triggers a cascade of changes in the body that make you sick and fat                     - You eat quickly absorbed sugar or refined carbohydrates (like white flour). Your blood sugar spikes.
           - Your insulin levels spike
           - Insulin triggers the storage of belly fat and increases your appetite and sugar cravings.
           - The sugar (particularly the fructose in high fructose corn syrup) turns on a                                 cholesterol factory in your liver (called lipogenesis).
           - This increases LDL (bad cholesterol), lowering HDL (good cholesterol), and raising triglycerides.
           - This leads to a fatty liver (now affecting 60 to 90 million Americans).
           - All of this increases something called insulin resistance, where your cells become numb to the effects of insulin, requiring more and more insulin to keep your blood sugar normal.
           - This is the major cause of all age-related chronic disease (such as heart disease,                          high blood pressure, stroke, cancer, type 2 diabetes, and dementia.)
           - Your body makes more and more insulin, triggering more and more belly fat and inflammation.
           - This inflammation is at the root of most chronic diseases.

Even if someone doesn’t yet have type 2 diabetes, insulin resistance is the major cause of heart attacks, strokes, many cancers, and even dementia (now called type 3 diabetes). Bottom line: Sugar is an occasional treat.

     f. Eliminate liquid calories: regular and diet sodas, sports drinks and other sweetened beverages, juice.
     g. Eliminate foods with these additives: artificial sweeteners (except stevia), sodium and calcium caseinate, soy protein isolate, phosphoric acid, sulfites, nitrates/nitrites,             artificial colors, flavors and dyes, and carrageenan.
     h. When cooking use unrefined, cold-pressed, and expeller-pressed oils
     I. Eat breakfast everyday!!
     j. Beware of health food impostors: sweetened yogurt, processed/genetically modified soy products, meat alternatives, protein bars, and fruit juice.
     k. if your budget allows, eat organic to avoid pesticides, hormones, and antibiotics in food.
     l. Realize all calories are not the same.
Compare 20-ounce soda with 240 calories to the equivalent number of calories from broccoli (which is about 7.5 cups). The soda has no nutritional value but has 15  teaspoons of sugar (high fructose corn syrup), caffeine, and phosphoric acid. The broccoli (if you could actually eat the 7.5 cups!) has the same number of calories, but about 1/2 teaspoon natural sugar and 35 grams fiber and is rich in vitamins and minerals. In fact, when it enters your body, the broccoli has the exact opposite effect of the sodas
    
3. Fitness.        
     Acts 17:28
     In Him, we live and move and have our Being
     Exercise is Medicine Exercise is the best strategy to Increase energy, Improve muscular      strength, tone, and endurance Make you happier, reducing stress, anxiety, and                     depression Look and feel years younger Manage weight and decrease body fat Increase      productivity Stimulate creativity Sharpen focus Promote restful sleep Enhance intimacy           and relationships Strengthen bones Make you smarter Enhance immune function                     Increase joint mobility Improve posture Treat and prevent more than forty chronic              diseases
     1. Move your body every day.  Minimum 30 minutes per day 6 days per week

4. Focus
     Phil 4:6-7
     6 Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication, with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God; 7 and the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus.

     Phil 4:8
     Finally, brethren, whatever things are true, whatever things are noble, whatever things are just, whatever things are pure, whatever things are lovely, whatever things are of good report, if there is any virtue and if there is anything praiseworthy—meditate on these things.


     We must learn to replace negative thoughts with truth rather than resisting them.
Every time you have a thought, your brain releases chemicals. Negative, angry, and hopeless thoughts produce negative chemicals that make your body and mind feel bad; by contrast, positive, happy, and hopeful thoughts produce a completely different set of chemicals that help you feel relaxed, happy, and in control of your impulses. Whenever you feel sad, mad, nervous, or out of control, identify which of the types of the negative thoughts you are engaging in. Challenge the negative thoughts by finding and stating the truth. This takes away their power and gives you control over your thoughts, moods, and behaviors.

Get rid of things that drain your energy
Every day write down three things you are grateful for
Learn to delegate and say no

Some supplements may be helpful in soothing stress, but take these under the supervision of a healthcare professional. B vitamins, L-Theanine, and Gamma-aminobutyric acid (GABA) have calming effects. (Note: Pregnant women and nursing mothers should avoid L-theanine supplements.)

5. Friends
     Prov 27:17
    As iron sharpens iron, so a friend sharpens a friend. (Proverbs 27:17 NLT)

    Eccl. 4:9-10
    Two are better than one because they have a good return for their labor: If either of them falls down, one can help the other up. (Ecclesiastes 4:9 – 10)

Friends can improve your emotional and spiritual health. The opposite is also true: Isolation injures us.
a.       Join a class or exercise group
b.      Create your own
c.       Join an online chat health group
d.      Find a personal trainer you bond with

                                             OVERALL HEALTH TIPS

A gradual approach is the surest way to success. Trying to change everything at once almost inevitably invites disappointment. Don’t try to change dozens of unhealthy habits at once. Start with a few vital behaviors — the ones that will have the biggest immediate impact — and go from there. Here are a few small steps to try if you haven’t incorporated them yet: • Set a goal in faith to take time in God’s Word and be refreshed by his promises.


Small Steps = Big Results

 • Follow the 90/10 Rule. Don’t beat yourself up about setbacks. You may default to negative thinking and find yourself thinking you have failed. That’s the human condition. Recognize it for what it is, and make the decision to focus on all the progress you have made. To avoid setbacks and help you stay on track, adopt the 90/10 rule. This guideline simply means that 90 percent of the time you are making healthy choices. Then give yourself a 10 percent margin to make choices just for fun.


   Never go to a party hungry. If you have a snack before, you won’t be tempted to eat every greasy, fried, or sugary food.
    Eat before you travel. Never go to an airport, a ballgame, or a public event hungry.
 • Bring your food. If you are going to a picnic, bring healthy options to avoid being tempted with unhealthy choices.
   Say no to food pushers. These are people who say, “Come on, just have one bite” or “One can of soda can’t hurt you.” They might feel bad about themselves and want you to join. Don’t submit to the momentary pressure; just say, “No thanks!” Always remember: It’s about progress, not perfection. Leave room to be human.
   Remember God loves the Body


Sunday, February 12, 2017

IN SHAPE II “THE SOUL”
1 Thessalonians 5:23
23 Now may the God of peace Himself sanctify you completely; and may your whole spirit, soul, and body be preserved blameless at the coming of our Lord Jesus Christ.

God dwells in the spirit; Self-dwells in the soul and senses dwell in the body
The spirit gives God consciousness; the soul self-consciousness; The body world consciousness

God made the spirit to rule but in order for the spirit to Govern the soul must give consent


I.                   THE SOUL
1.     Description
a.      Intellect, personality (self-consciousness)
b.     The soul represents our free will
c.      Thoughts, ideas, love, emotions, decisions etc
d.     Medium between the spirit and the body

2.     Creation of the Soul
Genesis 2:7
And the Lord God formed man of the dust of the ground, and breathed into his nostrils the breath of life; and man became a living soul.

3.     Functions of the Soul
a.      The Will – Decide. The Power to choose
b.     The Mind – Reason, process, consider
c.      The Emotions – Expression

II.                DANGERS OF AN UNHEALTHY SOUL
1.     You are not healthy
3 John 2
Beloved, I pray that you may prosper in all things and be in health, just as your soul prospers
2.     Spirit is hindered from expression
3.     Relationships suffer
4.     More open doors to Satan

III.             WHAT THE SOUL NEEDS TO BE HEALTHY
1.     Light
Ephesians 4:17-18
17 This I say, therefore, and testify in the Lord, that you should no longer walk as the rest of the Gentiles walk, in the futility of their mind, 18 having their understanding darkened, being alienated from the life of God, because of the ignorance that is in them, because of the blindness of their heart

2 Corinthians 4:3-4
But if our gospel be hid, it is hid to them that are lost: In whom the god of this world hath blinded the minds of them which believe not, lest the light of the glorious gospel of Christ, who is the image of God, should shine unto them.

2.     A Cross
Matthew 10:37-39
37 He who loves father or mother more than Me is not worthy of Me. And he who loves son or daughter more than Me is not worthy of Me. 38 And he who does not take his cross and follow after Me is not worthy of Me. 39 He who finds his life will lose it, and he who loses his life for My sake will find it.

Matthew 16:21-26
21 From that time Jesus began to show to His disciples that He must go to Jerusalem, and suffer many things from the elders and chief priests and scribes, and be killed, and be raised the third day. 22 Then Peter took Him aside and began to rebuke Him, saying, “Far be it from You, Lord; this shall not happen to You!” 23 But He turned and said to Peter, “Get behind Me, Satan! You are an offense to Me, for you are not mindful of the things of God, but the things of men.”24 Then Jesus said to His disciples, “If anyone desires to come after Me, let him deny himself, and take up his cross, and follow Me. 25 For whoever desires to save his life will lose it, but whoever loses his life for My sake will find it. 26 For what profit is it to a man if he gains the whole world, and loses his own soul? Or what will a man give in exchange for his soul?

3.     The Word of God
Hebrews 4:12
12 For the word of God is living and powerful, and sharper than any two-edged sword, piercing even to the division of soul and spirit, and of joints and marrow, and is a discerner of the thoughts and intents of the heart.


4.     Awareness. Know what is going on
                        Psalm 19:13-14
            13 Keep back your servant also from presumptuous sins; Let them not have dominion over me. Then I shall be blameless, and I shall be innocent of great transgression. 14 Let the words of my mouth and the meditation of my heart be acceptable in Your sight, O Lord, my strength, and my Redeemer.
                        Psalm 26:2
                        2 Examine me, O Lord, and prove me; Try my mind and my heart.
5.     Resolve.
                        Philippians 3:13
      13 Brethren, I count not myself to have apprehended: but this one thing I do, forgetting those things, which are behind, and reaching forth unto those things, which are before.

    
6.     Vulnerability
                        James 5:16
16 Confess your trespasses to one another, and pray for one another, that you may be healed. The effective, fervent prayer of a righteous man avails much.

                        Philippians 4:6-7
      Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication, with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God; and the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus.

7.     Solitude
                        Mark 6:31
      31 And He said to them, “Come aside by yourselves to a deserted place and rest a while.” For there were many coming and going, and they did not even have time to eat.

                        Psalm 46:10
10 Be still, and know that I am God; I will be exalted among the nations,
I will be exalted in the earth!

                        Lamentations 3:25-28
            25 The Lord is good to those who wait for Him, To the soul who seeks Him. 26       It is good that one should hope and wait quietly For the salvation of the Lord.

                        Psalm 131:1-2
            1 Lord, my heart is not haughty, Nor my eyes lofty. Neither do I concern myself with great matters, Nor with things too profound for me. 2  Surely I have calmed and quieted my soul, Like a weaned child with his mother; Like a weaned child is my soul within me.

                        Matthew 14:23
23 And when He had sent the multitudes away, He went up on the mountain by Himself to pray. Now when evening came, He was alone there.